I'm so sorry. And I know how empty those words are when the pain still lives in your heart. Your little Titus died a sudden and excruciating death much like my beautiful Buda. He suddenly went into cardiomyopathy while we were in a hotel. Like Titus, he didn't jump up on the sofa to sit with me. I could see he was nervous, thought it was because he was in a strange place. Within the hour, though, he was writhing. Paralyzed back legs. Thrashing with claws out. There was no way I could've held and comforted him. Thank God, the hotel clerk helped us find an emergency vet a few miles away. They were ready to receive him and get him settled. And when the final hard decision was made and implemented, we were able to spend a few moments cuddling him. God, I'm crying now just writing this. I'm so sorry, Nancy. I'm so very sorry.
Oh gosh, I'm so sorry to hear you experienced something similar. Being away from home had to make it all that much more traumatic. I'm sorry for your loss too. And actually, your words are not empty at all. It helps a lot knowing others understand this pain. So, thank you. I appreciate you and your kind words very much.
Oh, Nancy, I find my eyes well up with tears while I'm reading this. I am so sorry for this unimaginable, devastating loss for you and your family.
Please let yourself off the hook. You and your husband did the very best that you could for Titus. You are both only human. But I know that second-guessing ourselves comes naturally sometimes. Like you said, ask a cancer patient: I think, would I have gotten cancer had I left an abusive marriage sooner? No one knows.
Yes, let's discuss pets. I come from a family that dislikes/hates/fears animals, with the exception of my maternal grandfather, who raised homing pigeons and loved animals. Other than him, although I am biologically related to my family, I have very little in common with them, especially in the pet arena. I grew up loving/adoring/worshipping animals despite it all -- so much that I wanted to be a veterinarian and worked a few years at an animal hospital!
I've lost several cats over the years, and it is difficult as hell to lose a pet. When my cat Cosette, whom I adopted the day after I was diagnosed with breast cancer, died, I was lost. Still am. For 15 years, she slept with me every night, all night. She comforted me when I was sick with cancer treatments. Our cat Hemi had diabetes, but he was doing well. Then he felt what we thought was just under the weather, so we brought him in. His liver values were sky high. Unexpectedly for us. We made the humane decision to put in to sleep.
Our pets are members of our family, and they give us great joy. While we have them for only a short time, relatively speaking, they are worth spending our love on. Titus died way too soon. I am so saddened by this loss. As we know, grief has no timeline. Sending love and hugs.
Thank you for your kind words. Regret has certainly been rearing its head since that awful weekend. I'm in a better place now, but gosh, it was such a blow. It helps knowing others like you understand. And yes, we are only human, so second-guessing ourselves comes with the territory.
I love how you came to be such an animal lover even though your family didn't encourage this - except for your grandfather, of course. I remember now that you once wanted to be a veterinarian.
Cosette was such a special cat who helped get you through a lot of cancer crap. Much like my dogs Sophie and Elsie who as you know, I often refer to as my eye witnesses and secret keepers. I still miss them. And Hemi, that had to be so hard to uexpectedly discover he had those high liver values. Making that EOL decision is so darn hard.
Pets are for sure family members, and losing them sometimes hurts more than losing people in our lives. That's something I'm hearing more and more pet grievers say openly now. Like you said, even though we only get to have our beloved pets for a short time, it's worth it. I always say, I will have a pet until the day I die. I hope to anyway!
Thank you for sharing about your pet loss and for your kindness. I appreciate you.
Jan, that suddenness had to be so shocking indeed. I'm sorry you experienced something similar and yes, losing our beloved pets is so very hard. It helps know others like you understand. I'm grateful for readers like you.
This is expressed beautifully and my heart breaks for your loss. Our dogs give us unqualified love and it is so hard to lose them. We lost our beloved Havanese, Matrim, January 19. He was 12 but we never expected to lose him so soon. I had him from a tiny pup, the quintessential lap dog who would and did go everywhere with me (including my office) and loved to sleep on my head. I still unexpectedly choke up, reminded by little things or nothing at all.
I'm very sorry to hear about Matrim. It is indeed so hard to lose our beloved pets no matter how long they've been in our life. It sounds like he was a delightful companion. You must miss him so.
Thank you for your kind words, and thank you for sharing about your sweet boy. I apreciate you.
Very very very impactful essay. I can’t say more because I am still too raw and too hurting. Almost 4 months since I’ve lost the love of my life. Thank you for sharing. Maybe I will be able one day to share as well.
I'm sorry you lost the love of your life just four months ago, and I'm sorry your heart hurts so much. I understand. When you're ready, you are invited to share whatever you choose to.
Thank you for taking time to read and comment, too. I appreciate you.
Oh Nancy, I understand that your grieving your dear Titus and experiencing so many what ifs. I am sadly very familiar with IVDD and how cruel a disease it is to our dogs.
My previoys dog, Shelby at age 8 was left to me when my chemo bestie, Li who died from Metastatic TNBC.
At age 13 being half Shitszu, Shelby’s left eye had a basel cell tumor that was radiated which lasted a year and then a 5FU eye drop that kept it at bay.
At 14, she was diagnosed with anal glands carcinoma - I had her tissue sent to a lab called Fido cure and was pleasantly surprised they said she should get lapatinib pills - a medication used for Her2 positive MBC. The only side effect was diarreah, which we controlled.
About a year later she was showing signs of pain while walking, and after several months of pain I decided to contact her vet oncologist & discontinue the lapatinib.
She still liked eating so we kept her going. It turned out to be IVDD.
At the same time, my next door neighbors’ almost 3 year old Frenchie also got IVDD.
I could accept my 16 year old dog having this debilitating disease, but their young Frenchie? They did the surgeries, had her try to walk with a doggie wheelchair. Sadly nothing worked.
My guilt was keeping Shelby alive especially the last week of her life when she had many herniated discs and could not settle. She was also very distressed.
While I grieved putting her to sleep a week after I found out it was IVDD, I knew it was her time.
And unlike you not being able to say goodbye to Titus I was so lucky to say goodbye to Shelby.
I boiled chicken for her that morning, fed her as much as she could eat, strolled her outside so she could go potty and had her put to sleep at home. I had her ashes thrown into the Pacific where my friend Li had her ashes.
I’m so sorry about Titus. And I thank you for inviting your readers to share our stories.
Meanwhile, please be kind to yourself. IVDD is a terrible disease and your grief is real. After what happened to my neighbors dog Josie, I am keenly aware this disease is an impossible situation & currently has no cures. You gave Titus a beautiful life filled with love.
I want you to know how much your kind words have touched me.
I remember so well that you took in your sweet Shelby after your friend died from MBC. I didn't know Shelby developed those issues - including IVDD. It really is a cruel, terrible disease. I'm sorry you know it so well. It must be so comforting to know you gave Shelby such a good life after your friend's death. I know how hard it is to ultimately make that final decision to end a beloved pet's suffering. Like I mentioned in another comment, I regret making the decision too late for our springer Sophie and too soon for our golden Elsie. Of course, we do the best we can. Regardless of circumstances.
Thank you for sharing about your neighbor's experience with their Frenchie. Please let them know I understand that pain - if it seems appropriate to share with them. We planned to do the surgery for Titus - he just didn't make it that far. Our first emergency vet thought he'd have a real chance at recovering to lead a full life. Obviously, that might not have been the case for him either. Now, we'll never know.
Thank you so much for your kind words, Susan. Knowing others understand truly does help. I like to think we gave Titus a beautiful life, too. It certainly was filled with love.
Thank you for reading and taking time to share about your experience. I appreciate you. x
Losing a beloved pet is an unimaginable heartbreak, and the grief can feel overwhelming. I know this pain personally, which is why I created this group—a space for anyone who is mourning their fur baby and needs support on their healing journey.
This group is a place to share memories, express emotions, and connect with others who truly understand the depth of pet loss. Whether you want to talk, listen, or simply be among those who get it, you are welcome here.
It’s completely free and open to all on Insight. You are not alone 🐾 let’s navigate this journey together.
Yes, losing a beloved pet is heartbreaking, for sure. No one needs to navigate this alone either, so thank you for sharing about the space you created. I appreciate you. It's also one reason I write about grief - including pet grief.
I'm sorry for the loss of your beloved Titus. Reading this brought up tears for the dogs I've lost. As you say, they're family. Our last dog, Jeter, got an inoperable cancer on his paw. He had lived a good long life with us and when it was obvious that the pain was too much, we put him down. It was during Covid. And a vet came to our house and Dean and I cradled Jeter as she gave him the injections. As he slipped away, I told him one last time that I loved him and he wagged his tail. I've had dogs for a lot of my adult life, and losing one never gets easier. To this day I wonder if we put him down too soon -- or if we waited too long and made him suffer needlessly. I've never gotten closure on that. Even though we have a new dog that I adore, I still miss Jeter. I miss Jetson and I miss Chomper. They live in my heart now, and it's a heart that easily cries when I read something like what you just wrote. Because as you say, they're more than a dog . . . Sending you love and hugs.
Thank you for sharing about your dogs. We often hear it said that when the time comes, we will know. I don't agree with that. Sometimes, it's impossible to know. Once, I feel like we made the decision too soon and another time, I feel we waited too long. With Titus we had no say at all. Death is never neat and tidy. I'm coming to terms with accepting we did the best we could with what we knew at the time. But man, those "what if" moments are painful. I am focusing on the joy Titus brought to us and everyone who met him.
Our beloved pets do indeed live on in our hearts. That is a comfort, for sure. Thank you for your caring heart and words. I appreciate you.
Thank you for giving voice to the "when the time comes, you'll know." I agree with you -- it's impossible to know and thus, the "what if" moments. I have good memories of Jeter and how much hiking and lake swimming we go to do. That's the sweet spot in my heart where he lives on. Big hugs, Nancy.
Nancy, I’m so sorry you are still feeling this pain so intensely, and I also understand why. Dogs are absolutely the best part of every day of our lives with them. Please take as much time to cry and feel as you need to. There is no timeline for grief, as you know. And please don’t allow yourself to go down that “what if” road. You gave Titus the best possible life while he was here and that’s what’s most important.
We have made a habit of getting two dogs at a time, and we remember how painful it was for us when we lost our last pair within a few months of each other. But we also knew they would be happier with a companion. Now that our two 8 1/2 year olds are just starting to show slight signs of aging, it makes me aware every day of how fast time goes by. They were just puppies yesterday! I am thankful every day for the time we have with them and I make every effort to make their days extra special.
I would hug you if you were here, my fellow dog lover. Wishing you peace as you move forward on this path.
Thank you so much for your comforting words. I know you get it, and that really helps. Some don't understand, but fortunately, many, like you, do.
In the past, we've had two dogs, too. It was nice to have a backup and they enjoyed having a canine companion. These days, we travel a lot and having two is hard with motels, crates, etc. But man, it's been hard. Luckily, we do have a cat. We will be likely be getting another pup soon, but the loss of Titus will always hurt like hell. I'm staring to accept that we did our best and gave him a wonderful life - despite the brevity of it.
I can't believe your girls are 8 1/2 already! I remember when they were pups. I also remember your other two. Give them both some pats on the head from me. And yes, enjoy every day you get with them. I know you will.
I appreciate your kind words, my friend. I appreciate YOU.
Nancy, I am so sorry. My dog, Lucy, is 14 and recently suffered a bout of pancreatitis. We were sure we were going to lose her; since then I have spent time trying to prepare myself for the day that is eventually coming, but find it so difficult that I put it out of mind. We have lost dogs suddenly (an escape artist who was hit by a car) and when they have let us know it was time to go. It is always devastating. Cherish the memories and know that we all well understand what you are feeling.
I cannot adequately express how comforting your words are. It truly does help knowing others understand.
I will cherish the memories of Titus as I do of all the dogs I've had the privilege of caring for. Keep making memories with Lucy. Give her a gentle pat on the head from me. Thank you for your kindness. I appreciate you.
Nancy! What a terrible shock compounds the sorrow of Titus’s loss. You should have had many more years with this adorable little guy. Thank you for the shoutout.
Yes, it was a terrible shock. We feel so cheated. At the same time, we feel lucky to have had him. He was pure delight. I will always remember your kind words: Sisters in sorrow. So, thank YOU. I appreciatae you.
I'm so sorry. And I know how empty those words are when the pain still lives in your heart. Your little Titus died a sudden and excruciating death much like my beautiful Buda. He suddenly went into cardiomyopathy while we were in a hotel. Like Titus, he didn't jump up on the sofa to sit with me. I could see he was nervous, thought it was because he was in a strange place. Within the hour, though, he was writhing. Paralyzed back legs. Thrashing with claws out. There was no way I could've held and comforted him. Thank God, the hotel clerk helped us find an emergency vet a few miles away. They were ready to receive him and get him settled. And when the final hard decision was made and implemented, we were able to spend a few moments cuddling him. God, I'm crying now just writing this. I'm so sorry, Nancy. I'm so very sorry.
Hi Sue,
Oh gosh, I'm so sorry to hear you experienced something similar. Being away from home had to make it all that much more traumatic. I'm sorry for your loss too. And actually, your words are not empty at all. It helps a lot knowing others understand this pain. So, thank you. I appreciate you and your kind words very much.
Oh, Nancy, I find my eyes well up with tears while I'm reading this. I am so sorry for this unimaginable, devastating loss for you and your family.
Please let yourself off the hook. You and your husband did the very best that you could for Titus. You are both only human. But I know that second-guessing ourselves comes naturally sometimes. Like you said, ask a cancer patient: I think, would I have gotten cancer had I left an abusive marriage sooner? No one knows.
Yes, let's discuss pets. I come from a family that dislikes/hates/fears animals, with the exception of my maternal grandfather, who raised homing pigeons and loved animals. Other than him, although I am biologically related to my family, I have very little in common with them, especially in the pet arena. I grew up loving/adoring/worshipping animals despite it all -- so much that I wanted to be a veterinarian and worked a few years at an animal hospital!
I've lost several cats over the years, and it is difficult as hell to lose a pet. When my cat Cosette, whom I adopted the day after I was diagnosed with breast cancer, died, I was lost. Still am. For 15 years, she slept with me every night, all night. She comforted me when I was sick with cancer treatments. Our cat Hemi had diabetes, but he was doing well. Then he felt what we thought was just under the weather, so we brought him in. His liver values were sky high. Unexpectedly for us. We made the humane decision to put in to sleep.
Our pets are members of our family, and they give us great joy. While we have them for only a short time, relatively speaking, they are worth spending our love on. Titus died way too soon. I am so saddened by this loss. As we know, grief has no timeline. Sending love and hugs.
Hi Beth,
Thank you for your kind words. Regret has certainly been rearing its head since that awful weekend. I'm in a better place now, but gosh, it was such a blow. It helps knowing others like you understand. And yes, we are only human, so second-guessing ourselves comes with the territory.
I love how you came to be such an animal lover even though your family didn't encourage this - except for your grandfather, of course. I remember now that you once wanted to be a veterinarian.
Cosette was such a special cat who helped get you through a lot of cancer crap. Much like my dogs Sophie and Elsie who as you know, I often refer to as my eye witnesses and secret keepers. I still miss them. And Hemi, that had to be so hard to uexpectedly discover he had those high liver values. Making that EOL decision is so darn hard.
Pets are for sure family members, and losing them sometimes hurts more than losing people in our lives. That's something I'm hearing more and more pet grievers say openly now. Like you said, even though we only get to have our beloved pets for a short time, it's worth it. I always say, I will have a pet until the day I die. I hope to anyway!
Thank you for sharing about your pet loss and for your kindness. I appreciate you.
Oh Nancy, my heart goes out to you. We lost an older dog very suddenly to a spinal cord injury and it was devastating. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Hi Jan,
Thank you so much for your kind words. You understand, and I appreciate you.
Nancy, you and your daughter were there for me when I struggled with a difficult dog--they are so important to us.
I remember. And yes, they are so important indeed. Hugs.
I'm sorry for your loss, Jan.
Thanks Beth, she’s been gone for 8 years now, but the suddenness was shocking. Losing beloved dogs is so hard.
Jan, that suddenness had to be so shocking indeed. I'm sorry you experienced something similar and yes, losing our beloved pets is so very hard. It helps know others like you understand. I'm grateful for readers like you.
This is expressed beautifully and my heart breaks for your loss. Our dogs give us unqualified love and it is so hard to lose them. We lost our beloved Havanese, Matrim, January 19. He was 12 but we never expected to lose him so soon. I had him from a tiny pup, the quintessential lap dog who would and did go everywhere with me (including my office) and loved to sleep on my head. I still unexpectedly choke up, reminded by little things or nothing at all.
Hi Timothy,
I'm very sorry to hear about Matrim. It is indeed so hard to lose our beloved pets no matter how long they've been in our life. It sounds like he was a delightful companion. You must miss him so.
Thank you for your kind words, and thank you for sharing about your sweet boy. I apreciate you.
Very very very impactful essay. I can’t say more because I am still too raw and too hurting. Almost 4 months since I’ve lost the love of my life. Thank you for sharing. Maybe I will be able one day to share as well.
Hi Mona,
I'm sorry you lost the love of your life just four months ago, and I'm sorry your heart hurts so much. I understand. When you're ready, you are invited to share whatever you choose to.
Thank you for taking time to read and comment, too. I appreciate you.
🙏💔
Oh Nancy, I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. Your words beautifully capture the profound love we have for our pets. Sending you comfort and strength x
Hi Marie,
Thank you so much for your caring heart and kind words. I appreciate you.
Oh Nancy, I understand that your grieving your dear Titus and experiencing so many what ifs. I am sadly very familiar with IVDD and how cruel a disease it is to our dogs.
My previoys dog, Shelby at age 8 was left to me when my chemo bestie, Li who died from Metastatic TNBC.
At age 13 being half Shitszu, Shelby’s left eye had a basel cell tumor that was radiated which lasted a year and then a 5FU eye drop that kept it at bay.
At 14, she was diagnosed with anal glands carcinoma - I had her tissue sent to a lab called Fido cure and was pleasantly surprised they said she should get lapatinib pills - a medication used for Her2 positive MBC. The only side effect was diarreah, which we controlled.
About a year later she was showing signs of pain while walking, and after several months of pain I decided to contact her vet oncologist & discontinue the lapatinib.
She still liked eating so we kept her going. It turned out to be IVDD.
At the same time, my next door neighbors’ almost 3 year old Frenchie also got IVDD.
I could accept my 16 year old dog having this debilitating disease, but their young Frenchie? They did the surgeries, had her try to walk with a doggie wheelchair. Sadly nothing worked.
My guilt was keeping Shelby alive especially the last week of her life when she had many herniated discs and could not settle. She was also very distressed.
While I grieved putting her to sleep a week after I found out it was IVDD, I knew it was her time.
And unlike you not being able to say goodbye to Titus I was so lucky to say goodbye to Shelby.
I boiled chicken for her that morning, fed her as much as she could eat, strolled her outside so she could go potty and had her put to sleep at home. I had her ashes thrown into the Pacific where my friend Li had her ashes.
I’m so sorry about Titus. And I thank you for inviting your readers to share our stories.
Meanwhile, please be kind to yourself. IVDD is a terrible disease and your grief is real. After what happened to my neighbors dog Josie, I am keenly aware this disease is an impossible situation & currently has no cures. You gave Titus a beautiful life filled with love.
Hi Susan,
I want you to know how much your kind words have touched me.
I remember so well that you took in your sweet Shelby after your friend died from MBC. I didn't know Shelby developed those issues - including IVDD. It really is a cruel, terrible disease. I'm sorry you know it so well. It must be so comforting to know you gave Shelby such a good life after your friend's death. I know how hard it is to ultimately make that final decision to end a beloved pet's suffering. Like I mentioned in another comment, I regret making the decision too late for our springer Sophie and too soon for our golden Elsie. Of course, we do the best we can. Regardless of circumstances.
Thank you for sharing about your neighbor's experience with their Frenchie. Please let them know I understand that pain - if it seems appropriate to share with them. We planned to do the surgery for Titus - he just didn't make it that far. Our first emergency vet thought he'd have a real chance at recovering to lead a full life. Obviously, that might not have been the case for him either. Now, we'll never know.
Thank you so much for your kind words, Susan. Knowing others understand truly does help. I like to think we gave Titus a beautiful life, too. It certainly was filled with love.
Thank you for reading and taking time to share about your experience. I appreciate you. x
Losing a beloved pet is an unimaginable heartbreak, and the grief can feel overwhelming. I know this pain personally, which is why I created this group—a space for anyone who is mourning their fur baby and needs support on their healing journey.
This group is a place to share memories, express emotions, and connect with others who truly understand the depth of pet loss. Whether you want to talk, listen, or simply be among those who get it, you are welcome here.
It’s completely free and open to all on Insight. You are not alone 🐾 let’s navigate this journey together.
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Hi Karen,
Yes, losing a beloved pet is heartbreaking, for sure. No one needs to navigate this alone either, so thank you for sharing about the space you created. I appreciate you. It's also one reason I write about grief - including pet grief.
I'm sorry for the loss of your beloved Titus. Reading this brought up tears for the dogs I've lost. As you say, they're family. Our last dog, Jeter, got an inoperable cancer on his paw. He had lived a good long life with us and when it was obvious that the pain was too much, we put him down. It was during Covid. And a vet came to our house and Dean and I cradled Jeter as she gave him the injections. As he slipped away, I told him one last time that I loved him and he wagged his tail. I've had dogs for a lot of my adult life, and losing one never gets easier. To this day I wonder if we put him down too soon -- or if we waited too long and made him suffer needlessly. I've never gotten closure on that. Even though we have a new dog that I adore, I still miss Jeter. I miss Jetson and I miss Chomper. They live in my heart now, and it's a heart that easily cries when I read something like what you just wrote. Because as you say, they're more than a dog . . . Sending you love and hugs.
Hi Stephanie,
Thank you for sharing about your dogs. We often hear it said that when the time comes, we will know. I don't agree with that. Sometimes, it's impossible to know. Once, I feel like we made the decision too soon and another time, I feel we waited too long. With Titus we had no say at all. Death is never neat and tidy. I'm coming to terms with accepting we did the best we could with what we knew at the time. But man, those "what if" moments are painful. I am focusing on the joy Titus brought to us and everyone who met him.
Our beloved pets do indeed live on in our hearts. That is a comfort, for sure. Thank you for your caring heart and words. I appreciate you.
Thank you for giving voice to the "when the time comes, you'll know." I agree with you -- it's impossible to know and thus, the "what if" moments. I have good memories of Jeter and how much hiking and lake swimming we go to do. That's the sweet spot in my heart where he lives on. Big hugs, Nancy.
Nancy, I’m so sorry you are still feeling this pain so intensely, and I also understand why. Dogs are absolutely the best part of every day of our lives with them. Please take as much time to cry and feel as you need to. There is no timeline for grief, as you know. And please don’t allow yourself to go down that “what if” road. You gave Titus the best possible life while he was here and that’s what’s most important.
We have made a habit of getting two dogs at a time, and we remember how painful it was for us when we lost our last pair within a few months of each other. But we also knew they would be happier with a companion. Now that our two 8 1/2 year olds are just starting to show slight signs of aging, it makes me aware every day of how fast time goes by. They were just puppies yesterday! I am thankful every day for the time we have with them and I make every effort to make their days extra special.
I would hug you if you were here, my fellow dog lover. Wishing you peace as you move forward on this path.
Hi Alene,
Thank you so much for your comforting words. I know you get it, and that really helps. Some don't understand, but fortunately, many, like you, do.
In the past, we've had two dogs, too. It was nice to have a backup and they enjoyed having a canine companion. These days, we travel a lot and having two is hard with motels, crates, etc. But man, it's been hard. Luckily, we do have a cat. We will be likely be getting another pup soon, but the loss of Titus will always hurt like hell. I'm staring to accept that we did our best and gave him a wonderful life - despite the brevity of it.
I can't believe your girls are 8 1/2 already! I remember when they were pups. I also remember your other two. Give them both some pats on the head from me. And yes, enjoy every day you get with them. I know you will.
I appreciate your kind words, my friend. I appreciate YOU.
Nancy, I am so sorry. My dog, Lucy, is 14 and recently suffered a bout of pancreatitis. We were sure we were going to lose her; since then I have spent time trying to prepare myself for the day that is eventually coming, but find it so difficult that I put it out of mind. We have lost dogs suddenly (an escape artist who was hit by a car) and when they have let us know it was time to go. It is always devastating. Cherish the memories and know that we all well understand what you are feeling.
Hi Denise,
I cannot adequately express how comforting your words are. It truly does help knowing others understand.
I will cherish the memories of Titus as I do of all the dogs I've had the privilege of caring for. Keep making memories with Lucy. Give her a gentle pat on the head from me. Thank you for your kindness. I appreciate you.
My deepest condolences, Nancy. I have been through pet loss many times. It is always hard. The pain is real. I wish you peace in this difficult time.🙏
Hi Mary,
Pet loss is so very hard - every single time. And yet, I will go through it again if it means experiencing that joy only a pet can bring.
Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate you. x
It’s difficult every time, Nancy. Every pet is different, just as each person is unique. I care about you, too. Hugs.🫶
Thank you, Mary. Hugs back. And give that sweet cat of yours a scratch behind the ears from me. Or a gentle pat. Whichever she loves most.
Nancy! What a terrible shock compounds the sorrow of Titus’s loss. You should have had many more years with this adorable little guy. Thank you for the shoutout.
Hi Rona,
Yes, it was a terrible shock. We feel so cheated. At the same time, we feel lucky to have had him. He was pure delight. I will always remember your kind words: Sisters in sorrow. So, thank YOU. I appreciatae you.
I am so, so sorry! Nothing can prepare us for the sudden death of a loved one, whether human or not. My heart breaks for you and your husband.
Hi Sharon,
Thank you so much for you kind words. I appreciate you.
Thank you so much for the restack.